Sex Position of the Month: Toys to Make Sex More Fun
For November's sex position of the month, Lala discusses how sex toys, adult novelty products, and sex furniture add a level of enjoyment, pleasure, and fun to any sex position. Sex toys aren't just for self-pleasure or solo play. These days, numerous sex toys, furniture, and accessories are made specifically to aid in the satisfaction of a couple's sex life. Whether it's sexually stimulating lubes to create different experiences in arousal, couple toys, such as We-Vibes, fetish-related sex furniture, or bondage and restraints, these sex products will rock your world and broaden how you experience sexual activity with an intimate partner or partners. However, it can be overwhelming and confusing with all the sex products out there to liven up your bedroom fun. Therefore, Lala has provided you with her five favorite sex products and positions to utilize to take your sex life to new levels and heights.
The Flying Missionary Position
The Flying Missionary position involves a sex swing. A sex swing is a piece of sex furniture that works as a harness during sexual activity to suspend one partner into the air while another partner can move without restraint. Most sex swings are designed with material to support the back, rear-end, and stirrups for each leg for additional support and restraint. The Flying Missionary is one of the easiest and enjoyable positions to perform sexual intercourse for couples first exploring sex swings. This sex position is easy to perform in any sex swing design and is great for partners with any physical handicaps. The Flying Missionary is one of the best positions to get comfortable with surface-less sex and explore the best ways for penetration to be enjoyable for both partners while using a sex swing. The Flying Missionary is a great sex position to utilize in a sex swing. It allows for deeper penetration and easier access for the penetrator to stimulate a receiver that’s a vulva owner clitoris manually.
How To Best Perform This Position:
To perform the Flying Missionary Position, the receiver needs to be placed or steps into the harness of the sex swing and, with assistance from the penetrator, gets strapped into the sex swing or gets help with the positioning of their legs within the stirrups. The receiver will need to lean back slightly as it's comfortable for them and spread their legs as wide as possible. The receiver will need to firmly hold onto the straps of the swing or hand grips for stability and to support their weight in this position. Lastly, the penetrating partner will position themselves between the receiver's legs and enter the receiver vaginally or anally and begin thrusting.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
Explore different angles for the best penetration in this position. While experiencing surface-less sex, the receiver shouldn't be afraid to relax their body and allow the penetrator to do most of the work and hold some of their body weight. If this is feasible, you can swing your partner out, giving them the feeling that they are flying during sex, and then penetrate them deeply as they come back to the penetrator's body. Also, if the receiver is a vulva owner, you can play with their clitoris with your hand or add in a bullet vibrator to make it more pleasurable and heighten your partner's orgasm. A sex swing should boost the fun of sex positions like missionary and make it more enjoyable, so be sure to do your research and securely install the sex swing so neither party involved gets injured.
The Leapfrog Bondage Position
The Leapfrog Bondage position is a way to kick doggy style up a notch. This position involves the bondage of the receiving partner's wrists to their ankles. The best restraints to use are spreader bars or leather handcuffs and ankle cuffs connected to immobilize the receiver. This sex position is moderately difficult because the receiving partner has to be limber and have flexibility in their shoulders to be restrained with their wrist to their ankles. This is a great position to explore kinks. The Leapfrog Bondage position also adds a level of BDSM to heighten the fun of the traditional doggy style position.
How To Best Perform This Position:
The Leapfrog Bondage position is easy for the receiving partner to position themselves. The receiver will need to get into the doggy style position and place their head comfortably on the bed facing downward. The receiver should draw their knees as close to their chest as possible while positioning their buttocks high in the air and spreading their legs wide. The penetrator will then bound the receiver’s wrists to their ankles utilizing ropes, cuffs, or any bondage device. In this position, the penetrator will stand behind the receiver and position themselves to comfortably penetrate their partner anally or vaginally. Also, this is an excellent position for oral or anal stimulation of the receiver's genitalia, usage of dildos and vibrators to stimulate pleasure spots, and deep penetration.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
Since this position does have an element of BDSM, there should be a conversation beforehand about the consent and comfortability of using restraints in the bedroom. Also, this is not a position that can be held for an extended period. The penetrator needs to check in on the receiver throughout to ensure the sex position is comfortable and enjoyable for them. In any bondage sex position, don't be afraid to exercise safe words. A pillow can make the Leapfrog Bondage Position more comfortable for the receiver to help with neck strain and pressure on the head. The receiver should relax and allow the penetrator to control their sexual pleasure for the best results. Using a vibrating butt plug in this position while you play or perform oral sex on the receiver is a great way to heighten the receiver’s orgasm. Then, to make it more enjoyable during anal or vaginal penetration, the penetrator should grasp the receiver's hip to stabilize their body as they deeply penetrate.
The Happy Scissors Position
The Happy Scissors sex position is another simple variation of missionary. This sex position allows for couples to easily explore vibrators and cock rings during vaginal and anal penetration. It's an excellent position for stimulating intimacy through visual appeal and touch. So, let loose and explore with all the toys and your five senses during sexual play in the Happy Scissors sex position.
How To Best Perform This Position:
The Happy Scissors sex position is straightforward to get in position for sexual activity. The receiver needs to lay on their back with their hips elevated and their legs on the penetrator's shoulders or hands. The penetrator should kneel between the receiver's legs for the most accessible access and most comfortable positioning. This allows the penetrator in the best position to enter the receiver anally or vaginally.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
A pillow or sex wedge should be placed under the receiver's hips to make it more comfortable and allow for deeper penetration. A way to increase intimacy during the Happy Scissors sex position, the penetration can stimulate the receiver's pleasure and sensitive spots, such as their nipples, scrotum, or clitoris. In this sex position, the receiver's hands are free to make the sexual activity more exciting. The receiver can put on a show for the penetrator by using a vibrator on their body to heighten their arousal and toy or tease their genitalia and erogenous zones.
Great Head with the Blow Job Helper
If you want to up your fellatio game, the Good Head Ultimate Blow Job Helper is a great tool. It's a penis sleeve that creates the feeling and sensation of a groping hand or deep throat experience. This sex toy is made of an Ultraskyn material. It is a handheld device with massage beads that heightens a penis owner's sexual pleasure during oral sex. If your partner is well endowed and you're having issues pleasuring him with your mouth, this is the perfect sex toy to use during fellatio.
How To Best Perform This Position:
The blowjob helper is a straightforward sex toy to utilize during oral sex. The best way to make this enjoyable is to have the receiving partner sit or lay in the most comfortable position for them to receive fellatio. Next, slide the blow job helper down the shaft of their penis and leave the tip or head of the penis exposed. Then, the penetrator inserts the penis in their mouth as they move their hand up and down the blowjob helper as they perform oral sex on the receiver.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
To make fellatio more enjoyable with the blow job helper, use a flavored, heating, or cooling lube to increase the receiver's arousal while making it taste amazing for the penetrator. Also, you can mix it up by adding a vibrating cock ring to the base of the penis shaft so that there will be a vibrator placed on the penis owner's scrotum. This will provide an additional sensation for the receiver as the penetrator goes to town with their hands, mouth, and tongue. There are so many ways to enjoy the blowjob helper to ensure you and your partner or partners or having a great time during fellatio.
Wow Them with the Whirl Pillow
The whirl pillow is a great way to make sex more comfortable for the receiver, engaging in most sexual positions. The whirl pillow is a piece of sex furniture made of memory foam and covered in a removable micro velvet. The whirl pillow comes with discreet hooks to add silk or satin restraints for bondage play. This is a great sex product for deep penetration and makes advanced sex positions more comfortable to lengthen the time you can spend in sex positions. More comfort, deeper penetration, and longevity in a sex position allow for heightened and increase earth-shattering orgasms.
How To Best Perform This Position:
The best way to start playing around with the whirl pillow is to have the receiver lay on their back with the pillow under their lower back and their arms restrained to the side. The penetrator will lift one or both legs on their shoulder(s) and position the receiver in a way to deeply penetrate their body. The whirl pillow is a great way to explore angles and sex positions that allow for deep penetration.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
To make the whirl pillow most enjoyable, use it with the restraints to add a level of kinky play to your sexual activity. The whirl pillow allows the penetrator excellent access to the receiver's body, so they have complete control of the receiver's sexual experience. So, the receiver should relax and give over their pleasure to the penetrator. The receiver should lay back and put on a show for the penetrator by vocalizing their enjoyment and arousal. The penetrator should explore the receiver's body to add to increase arousal during anal or vaginal penetration.
November is Erectile Dysfunction month and a celebration of sex toys and accessories. Sexual activity and intimacy can always be pleasurable even if you’re experiencing any sexual disorders. Sex doesn’t ever have to be boring so, make sure it’s always enjoyable! All It takes is simple modifications, tricks, and tips to keep the sex hot! Subscribe to Lala’s Bedtime Tales Newsletter and follow @LalasBedtimeTales on social media for sex tips and tricks to spice up your sex life! Also, check out Lala's Bedtime Tales Podcast and Lala's Oh So Exclusive Patreon account for even more content! If you’re browsing for sexy pleasure products or cute giftable items, then check out Lala’s Pleasure Shop.
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