Sex Position of the Month: Fun Between the Cheeks
For both penis and vulva owners, the anus is an erogenous zone. In a recent survey, about 72% of Americans reported having tried anal play in their lifetime, and 42% reported enjoying it. Even though butt play is seen as a "taboo" form of sex, it's a relatively common sexual activity for people of all gender orientations and sexuality. Anal play is the sexual stimulation of the anus and rectum. Anal play includes stimulation of the anus with fingers, sex toys, mouth or tongue, and penis. It's even possible to have anal orgasms with proper education, communication, and preparation. The pleasure of anal can be experienced in solo and partner play. To ensure that anal sex is pleasurable and comfortable for both partners, sex positioning plays a significant role in the ability to appreciate the joys of anal play. Therefore, Lala will give you the ultimate tips and tricks to enjoying butt play by sharing with you four great sex positions to better help you discover the thrills of anal sex.
Bulldog Sex Position
The Bulldog sex position is a position for those who enjoy anal sex but want to try something new regarding anal play. This sex position will make anal sex more intense and dominant because it allows for deeper penetration for rear-entry sex. The Bulldog sex position is similar to doggy style but places the receiver in a submissive role and the penetrator in a dominant role. The Bulldog is a well-loved position for anal sex because the receiver's hips are in a higher elevation than doggy style allowing for the deepest penetration they'll experience. The key to this sex position being pleasurable is the widespread of the receiver's knees while keeping their butt at the right height of the penetrator's groin. The Bulldog sex position is more complicated. It can be hard to hold by the penetrator for an extended period because it can be tiring on the legs.
How To Best Perform This Position:
The best way to perform the Bulldog sex position is for the receiver to get on their knees and lay their upper body flat on the floor. Depending on comfort and desired level of deep penetration, the receiver can alternatively rest on their elbows. The penetrator positions themselves behind the receiver's buttocks, bringing both feet outside the receiver's legs and placing their hands on the receiver's waist or shoulders to steady themselves for entry. In the Bulldog sex position, the penetrator will do all the work. The penetrator will be in a slightly squatting position; they will line the strap-on dildo or penis up with the receiver's anus and begin thrusting. The receiver can push back onto the dildo or penis to be more pleasurable for both partners.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
To best enjoy anal play in Bulldog, the penetrator can change the angle and enhance the receiver's pleasure by squatting lower or higher. The penetrator should test different angles to find the receiver's pleasure spot in their anus. Utilizing a pillow or sex wedge under the receiver's pelvis creates a tilt to their core, giving another change in the angle and an added level of comfort. If you and your play partner are into dominant sex, the penetrator should grab the receiver's hair or neck lightly and pull on it while thrusting. Another option to make the sex rougher is for the penetrator to spank the receiver if the receiver enjoys impact play. A firm grasp or pull on the receiver's hips will add sensation to the anal play and drive them wild. Also, the wider the receiver spreads their legs, the deeper the stimulation or by closing their thighs, the tighter the fit in the anus.
Lap Dance Sex Position
The Lap Dance sex position is great for people new to anal sex. It's the perfect anal sex position for those who want a simple yet sexy position. The Lap Dance sex position is excellent if the receiver is an anal play newbie because they can control the depth in which the penis or dildo penetrates their anus. Therefore, you can go as deep or as shallow as you want during anal sex. The lap dance position is all about the penetrator allowing them to either relax and enjoy the show the receiver is putting on or be more active and top from the bottom during anal play.
How To Best Perform This Position:
To best perform this sex position, the penetrating partner sits on the edge of a comfortable bed, chair, or sofa. The receiver must sit on the penetrator, sliding their anus onto the strap-on dildo or penis. The receiver will be on their feet and needs to back up onto the penetrator's lap. The receiver will need to grab the penetrator's penis or dildo and guide it into their anus. The penetrator doesn't do much work in the Lap Dance sex position except to sit back and enjoy the show like they're at a strip club. The three best ways the receiver can thrust onto the penetrator's penis or strap-on dildo is by slowly grinding down on the penetrator while they stay deep inside, bouncing up and down to control the speed of anal play, or the penetrator can take an active role by helping raise the receiver up and down.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
The Lap Dance sex position can be more fun with these simple tricks. The receiver can lean forward until facing the floor to make the sex position more fun. Or the receiver can tilt backward to make it more intimate, and the penetrator can wrap their arms around the receiver and hold them close. If the receiving partner places their hands on their knees, it'll make it easier to bounce up and down on the penetrator during anal play. The receiver should reach their hands around and grab the penetrator's neck and chest for more contact, to make this sex position more intimate. The receiver needs to channel their inner stripper and be bold by looking over their shoulder, making eye contact with the penetrator, and kissing them. A great way to set the mood is to play a sexy playlist and start with a striptease. The Lap Dance is the perfect position for the receiver, penetrator, or both to massage and plays with the clitoris to heighten the pleasure of a vulva owner during anal sex. This is also a great position if the penetrator is a penis owner for the receiver to massage their ball sack for additional sexual stimulation.
Spooning Sex Position
Sex therapists recommend that the Spooning sex position is the best for anal virgins. This is the suggested sex position for first-time anal sex because it's a relaxing position that allows for clitoral and vaginal stimulation of vulva owners, leading to the sexual stimulation of three pleasure zones. Spooning is an easy sex position to perform and allows for intimacy. Also, this is a great sex position for clitoral stimulation that will relax the receiver if they're a vulva owner making it easier to dive into full anal sex.
How To Best Perform This Position:
The Spooning sex position is best performed on a sofa or bed. Both the penetrator and receiver need to lie on their side while facing in the same direction. The penetrator will lay behind the receiver and will thrust inside the receiver's anus. In the Spooning sex position, the receiver will slightly bring their top leg forward to make it easier for the penetrator to thrust deeply. When spooning with the penetrator, the receiving partner can push back against them each thrust to make anal more pleasurable for both partners.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
Spooning sex can become more comfortable by placing a small pillow or folded blanket under the receiver's hips to raise the receiver to the right height for the best angle for anal penetration. To make the sex position more intimate during penetration, the penetrator should wrap their arms around the receiver to add a level of closeness to the sexual encounter. The receiver should slightly lean onto their stomach to change the angle of entry. For first-time anal, the receiver can curl up and pull their upper legs towards their stomach to make penetration easier and more comfortable. Lastly, to heighten the orgasm and make the receiver more relaxed, add sex toys. If the receiver is a vulva owner, massaging the clitoris or using a vibrator will help bring them to orgasm.
Butterfly Sex Position
The Butterfly is a great sex position for anal sex because it's relatively easy to perform. It's not overly complicated, isn't strenuous for either partner and allows the receiver to relax their body entirely. This sex position is a fan favorite of those that love anal play because it allows for deep penetration, the intimacy of eye contact, and the ability to stimulate other erogenous zones during penetration. Simple adjustments to the receiver's leg positioning or hip height can make this position absolutely orgasmic.
How To Best Perform This Position:
The Butterfly sex position is a great position to perform on the bed or any raised flat surface like a table, desk, or countertop. The receiver will be passive in this sex position, and the penetrator will do the bulk of the work, predominantly in control of the receiver's pleasure. The receiver can control their pleasure in this position by controlling the height they raise their hips. The receiver will lie on their back on a raised flat surface, and the penetrator will stand in front of them, lifting their legs to rest them against their shoulders. Then, the penetrator will slide their penis or strap-on dildo into the receiver's anus.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
To make the Butterfly sex position more comfortable, you can place a pillow, sex wedge, or cushion under the receiver's hips. Adding a cushion will allow the penetrator to deepen their thrust for more intense penetration. The receiver should continually adjust the height of their hips until the penetrator hits the most pleasurable spot in their anus, To find the best point of anal stimulation. If the receiver opens and closes their thighs like butterfly wings, it can adjust the angle of penetration and give them some control of the rhythm. Lastly, the receiver shouldn't just lay there! Provide a show for the penetrator to make the sexual encounter more enjoyable by rubbing on your clitoris or stroking your penis, or playing with your nipples.
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