Sex Position of the Month: Kicking Up Oral Pleasure A Notch
Oral sex is a common part of sexual activity amongst many people regardless of age, gender, or sexual orientation. However, one of the most significant gender gaps in oral sex is based on the enjoyment of giving oral. While women are more likely to engage in performing oral sex, they typically don't find it as enjoyable to perform as their male counterparts. A great way to fix this gender gap in oral sex is to make it more fun and pleasurable experience whether you're receiving or giving oral sex. So, to help you love going downtown on your partner(s), Lala provides you with four of her favorite sex positions that will keep oral sex from becoming a total snooze fest.
The Over the Edge Deep Throat Blow Job Position
The Over the Edge Blow Job position is typically a fan favorite of penis owners! This is an easy to moderate difficulty level oral sex position that allows the receiving partner complete control and dominance over their pleasure and orgasm. This is considered a fan favorite of penis owners because it provides them the deepest oral penetration possible, and their penis can be orally stimulated from shaft to tip. This position allows the receiving partner to watch a sexy show while controlling how deep and fast the thrusts and strokes are that they get to experience.
How To Best Perform This Position:
The best way to perform this position is to have the penetrating partner lay on a flat surface that they can drape their head off while facing the ceiling. Then, the receiving partner must kneel or crouch down in a comfortable position to best penetrate the performing partner's mouth. A vital element of this position is the receiver utilizing their arms and/or legs to hold their weight while controlling their thrusts into the receiver's mouth.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
The best place to perform this position for the comfort of both parties is on a bed. Be sure to check with the receiving partner throughout oral sex in this position to make sure they're comfortable and not in any distress. While in this position, it's a good idea to have the receiving partner choose a safe signal that they can perform with their hands, similar to that of a safe word. The penetrating partner can put on a show for the receiving partner while prioritizing their pleasure by engaging in nipple play or masturbating with their hands, fingers, or vibrators to make this position more enjoyable. The penetrating partner can stroke the different below waist erogenous parts of the receiving partner like the buttocks, scrotum, stomach, or inner thighs. This oral sex position is great for the receiving partner to explore the penetrator's erogenous zones. The penetrator can engage in nipple and genitalia stimulation of their partner.
The Cunnilingus Leg Hike Position
The Cunnilingus Leg Hike or the Leg Up oral sex position is one of the hottest positions to give and receive oral sex. This oral sex position is one of the easiest yet, hands down, one of the most enjoyable sex positions known to humankind. The Cunnilingus Leg Hike sex position is great for couples craving intimacy because it allows constant eye contact. You're positioned so that the receiver gets a sexy show while the penetrator performs cunnilingus. If you haven't tried this sex position yet, it's a definite must-add to your sex bucket list!
How To Best Perform This Position:
The best way to perform the Cunnilingus Leg Hike is to have the receiver stand next to a chair, couch, coffee table, or any low raised surface they can prop their leg up. The receiving partner will want to prop their leg up on a stable surface at a ninety-degree angle. So, they can rest their leg on the surface in a comfortable position and spread their legs, exposing the inside of their lady bits. The penetrating partner will need to kneel on the floor beneath the receiver and between their thighs. Once the penetrator is comfortable, they can then begin to perform cunnilingus.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
To make this Leg Up oral sex position more enjoyable, the penetrator can change pressure and control the receiver's pleasure by taking hold of their hips while performing cunnilingus. Also, this is an excellent position for the penetrator to exercise consensual dominance over their partner by holding them still as they bury their face between their thighs. The penetrating partner can explore erogenous zones with their hands and fingers, breasts, anus, buttocks, or inner thighs to heighten the receiver's pleasure. A great prospect of this oral sex position is that it can be performed anywhere, so let your voyeur and exhibitionist flags fly high when considering places to try out this hot position.
The Reverse Cowgirl Face Straddle Position
If you enjoy reverse cowgirl during vaginal or anal penetration, then you'll probably love this oral sex position. Don't be shy to ride your partner's face! Sex experts have deemed the Reverse Cowgirl Face Straddle one of the kinkier cunnilingus sex positions. So, if you're into riding that face, you have a total kinky side! The Reverse Cowgirl Face Straddle is a moderately tricky sex position. This ultimately leaves the receiving partner's nether reasons exposed to the penetrating partner, so it's an excellent position to engage in anal play and anilingus. This is an enjoyable position for the receiver because, like with intercourse, the receiver can control the positioning and speed of the sexual activity.
How To Best Perform This Position:
The best way to get into this position is to have the penetrating partner lay flat on their back, and the receiving partner straddles the penetrator's face. The receiver should be sitting on their knees or kneeling with one leg on each side of the penetrator's face. The receiver should be facing forward or towards the penetrating partner's legs. A pertinent key to this position is not to smother the penetrator; be sure that the receiver holds as much weight as possible on their knees. Once positioned correctly, the penetrator can begin performing cunnilingus or anilingus on the receiver.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
One of the reasons Lala Loves this oral sex position is that it can be performed just about anywhere. It can be performed best on a couch, car backseat, or any flat surface. Therefore, you aren't limited to a bed to receive oral pleasure. Think of their comfort to make this a more enjoyable position for the penetrating partner. Therefore, a throw or bed pillow placed under their head for support will help increase their longevity in this sex position. To make this oral sex position more fun, if the receiver is into anal play, don't be afraid to use your hands and fingers to stimulate their backside. Also, this is an excellent position for the receiver to stimulate the penetrator's genitalia with their hands while riding the penetrator's face.
Under the Hood Blow Job Position
The Under the Hood Blow Job sex position is one of the easiest oral sex positions to perform. This is a great oral sex position if the receiving partner enjoys prostate stimulation, anilingus, and fellatio. The Under the Hood Blow Job sex position gives the penetrating partner complete access to the receiving partner's nether regions, allowing the penetrator to have total dominance and control over the receiver's pleasure.
How To Best Perform This Position:
The best way to perform this oral sex position is to have the receiving partner lay flat on their back and bring their legs straight into the air and close to their chest. Ideally, the receiving partner wants to keep their legs as straight as possible in this position, but having a slight bend to the knee may be more comfortable for some. If the receiving partner isn't limber or has limited flexibility, they can hold their thighs back for better support. The penetrating partner kneels on their knees between the receiving partner's thighs and begins performing fellatio.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
To make the Under the Hood Blow Job sex position more enjoyable for both parties, prioritize comfort! The most comfortable place to perform this oral sex position is in a spacious setting like on a living room or bedroom floor or within a bed. A pillow placed beneath the receiver's head to support the neck will make it easier to stay in this position for a lengthier time period. Also, a rolled-up blanket or throw pillow will add comfort while kneeling to make it more comfortable on the penetrating partner's knees. The penetrator can also assist in the receiver's comfort by helping hold their legs in place. To spice it up in this oral sex position, while performing fellatio, use a vibrating butt plug or perform a prostate massage on the receiver to help heighten their pleasure and orgasm.
Sex doesn’t ever have to be boring so, make sure it’s always enjoyable! All It takes is simple modifications, tricks, and tips to keep the sex hot! Subscribe to Lala’s Bedtime Tales Newsletter and follow @LalasBedtimeTales on social media for sex tips and tricks to spice up your sex life! Also, check out Lala's Bedtime Tales Podcast and Lala's Oh So Exclusive Patreon account for even more content! If you’re browsing for sexy pleasure products or cute giftable items, then check out Lala’s Pleasure Shop.
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