Sex Position of the Month: The Delights of Deep Penetration
December's sex positions of the month are all about deep penetration. Lala believes an understanding of deep penetrative sexual intercourse is of the essence because it's vital when thinking of the majority of vulva owners' sexual pleasure and satisfaction. Deep penetrative sex is the best way to stimulate a vulva owner's G-spot, C-Spot, or A-Spot. Most individuals find sexual intercourse more enjoyable physically and intimately when penetration is deep. Deep penetration is mentally gratifying for individuals because it positions your and your partner's or partners' bodies close together and allows for more intimacy during sexual intercourse. Deep penetrative sex can be done either vaginally or anally and typically involves the penetration of a penis, dildo, or strap-on. Deep penetration is a great way to explore and educate yourself on what internal pleasure spots need to be stimulated to achieve your best orgasm during sex. Therefore, Lala provides you with four of her favorite sex positions to help you find that big "O", also known as the "Orgasm" you seek or more pleasure during penetrative sex.
Climbing the Flagpole Sex Position
This sex position is a fun and enjoyable variation of missionary that allows for deep penetration. The Climbing the Flagpole sex position is fun and a simple position for both parties, regardless of whether you're the receiver or the penetrator. Since it's a variation of the traditional missionary sex position, it's comfortable for deep penetration for both the receiver and the penetrator. Climbing the Flagpole is a comfortable yet erotic and climatic sex position because it allows the receiver to lay comfortably on their back or side. In contrast, the penetrator can comfortably position themselves to thrust into their partner. Due to the leg positioning of the receiving partner, this position requires some flexibility on the receiver's part. Still, it allows the penetrator an excellent and intimate view of their partner during sexual activity.
How To Best Perform This Position:
To get the most sexual satisfaction of this sex position with little to no discomfort is for the receiving partner to position themselves on their side as if they're in the spoon sex position. The receiver then will want to support their neck with a pillow, hand, or forearm. The receiver will need to lift their top leg towards the ceiling in a straight line while the penetrator straddles the leg resting on the bed, floor, or stable surface. For additional comfort, the receiver can hold their leg that's pointed towards the ceiling with a slight bend to the knee or rest it gently on the penetrator's shoulder. Then the penetrator will begin thrusting into their partner.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
The Climbing the Flagpole sex position is great for clitoral or C-spot stimulation. If the receiving partner is a vulva owner, they can put on a fun show for the penetrating partner by using a clitoral stimulating sex toy or by fingering their clitoris. Another way to make this position more fun is for the penetrating partner to pleasure their partner's erogenous zones, such as the nipples, stomach, scrotum, or clitoris while in this sex position. Due to the penetrator's body position, they can grind on the receiver's C-spot while thrusting or stroking their partner in ways that stimulate the Grafenberg or G-spot or the Anterior fornix or A-spot if their partner is a vulva owner.
The Deck Chair Sex Position
The Deck Chair position is another adaptation of the classic missionary position, which allows for deep penetrative sex. This sex position is straightforward and allows sexual intercourse to feel so deeply that it can provide you and your partner with the same sexual pleasure and sensation of the deep penetration of doggy-style sex. The Deck Chair sex position is an incredible deep penetrative sex position for G-spot stimulation if the receiver is a vulva owner. It's an easy, comfortable sex position that allows both partners to have equally incredible and orgasmic sex.
How To Best Perform This Position:
Like missionary, the best way to perform the Deck Chair is to have the receiver lay on their back and raise their leg into a 90-degree position or with their knees bent and feet hovering off the bed, floor, or chosen surface. To achieve the deepest penetration during sex, the receiver doesn't link or hook or rest their legs on the penetrator's hips, backside, or shoulders. This is one of the simplest yet best sexual positions that allow the penetrator to get deep enough to stimulate not only the G-spot but the A-spot of a vulva owner. If your sexual partner is a vulva owner who enjoys cervical orgasms, this is a great sexual position that will help them achieve their big "O" during sexual intercourse.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
To improve the comfort of the receiver and allow for even deeper penetration, utilize a pillow for their lower back. If the receiver is a vulva owner, then the pillow will tilt their hips and pelvis in a way that allows for deep penetrative sex that guarantees that their G-spot and A-spot will be sexually stimulated. The wider the receiver spreads their legs, the more satisfying the penetration because this will help the penetrator better thrust in a manner that hits their G-spot. A receiver who is a vulva owner that enjoys cervical orgasms will feel the A-spot stimulation and doggy style sensation better if you lift their legs slightly higher than 90-degrees while still keeping the receiver's legs bent at the knees.
The Deep Victory Sex Position
The Deep Victory sex position is one of the hottest deep penetration positions to do outside of the bedroom. This is a great sex position to partake in on a desk, table, countertop, or washer and dryer as long as the penetrating partner’s hips or groin area is slightly higher than the surface and can comfortably position themselves to penetrate the receiver anally or vaginally. This sex position can be challenging if the receiving partner isn't extremely flexible. However, this phenomenal deep penetrative sex position guarantees internal pleasure spot stimulation and will heighten emotional intimacy amongst partners. The Deep Victory sex position is an erotic and sensual position due to its ability for A-spot and G-spot stimulation and eye-to-eye contact between partners.
How To Best Perform This Position:
To have the best sex of your life in this sex position, the receiver will need to sit on a steady surface about hip or groin level to the penetrator. The receiver should plant their hands behind them like in a reverse push-up or lean back on their forearms for stability and comfort while engaging in this sexual position. The penetrator will lift their partner's legs in a V-shape and place their ankles and feet on their shoulders. The penetrator will hold on to the receiver's ankles as they thrust into their intimate partner.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
Adding a pillow or blanket under the receiver's buttocks will make the position more comfortable and allow for better stimulation of their internal pleasure zones. Since this position allows for great eye-to-eye contact, be expressive in your facial expressions and vocal about the sexual pleasure you are both achieving in this position. While this position allows for excellent G-spot stimulation, it's not a position that can be held for a very long time. Be sure to check on the receiving partner's comfort level throughout sexual activity in this position. Performing sexual intercourse in this position with vibrating sex toys or on a vibrating surface like a dishwasher, dryer, or washing machine will make the position more orgasmic for both parties involved.
The Viennese Oyster Sex Position
The Viennese Oyster sex position is one of the most challenging deep penetration positions to try out in the bedroom! But once this sex position is mastered, it can lead to great sexual gratification between you and your partner. This position can be uncomfortable for the receiver but extremely enjoyable for the penetrating partner. This is one of the best positions for deep penetrative sex because it exposes the receiver's entire groin area, which allows for ease of entry and penetration. The Viennese Oyster requires a lot of flexibility from the receiving partner. Individuals enjoy this position because it places the receiver in a submissive position during sex to the penetrator. The Viennese Oyster puts the sexual pleasure of the receiver into the hands of the penetrator, and the penetrator's body is used as a restraint. Therefore, this is an excellent position for those that enjoy domination or being dominated in the bedroom. This is an excellent position for C-spot stimulation if the receiving partner is a vulva owner.
How To Best Perform This Position:
The most efficient way to perform this sexual position is to have the receiving partner lay on their back, raise their legs towards the ceiling, and place their ankles behind their head. The penetrator covers the receiver's body in a modified push-up position to rest their weight on their hands. The penetrating partner will need to put their knees down on the bed, floor, or stable surface to evenly distribute their weight. Once in this position, the receiving or penetrating partner can hold the receiver's legs by their ears and begin to thrust into them.
Tips To Make It Most Enjoyable:
A vital part of enjoying the Viennese Oyster sex position is to ensure that you have a lot of room. So, a spacious floor or king-size bed is recommended for the utmost comfort of you and your partner. The farther back the receiver or the penetrator can get the receiving partner's legs behind their head will increase the G-spot's stimulation and the receiver's ability to reach a strong earth-shattering climax. While the receiving partner cannot move in this position, they will need to lay back, relax, and let the pleasure consume them. Lastly, suppose the penetrator holds the receiver's ankles behind their head. In that case, the receiver can stimulate their clitoris or other erogenous zones like their nipples to help them reach climax and provide the penetrator with an erotic show.
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